Beaverton Portland Divorce Mediator Matthew House, J.D.: Child-Centered Divorce Without Attorneys
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  • What is Divorce Mediation?
    • Summary of the Process
    • Components of the Process
    • Parenting Education Classes
    • Mediation Sessions
    • Marital Settlement Agreement and Divorce Forms
    • Post-Divorce
  • About Matthew
    • Matthew House
    • Ohana Means Family
  • Five Professionals in One
    • Family Law Mediator
    • Family Law Financial Analyst
    • Parenting Plan Coach
    • No-Cost Services to Kids
    • Notary Public
  • Topics to Address in Mediation
    • Income Analysis
    • Budgets
    • Child-Related Decisions >
      • Child Custody
      • Parenting Plan
      • Child Support: Minor Children
      • Child Support: College Students
    • Spousal Support
    • Asset Division >
      • Real Property
      • Bank Accounts
      • Retirement Accounts >
        • Defined Contribution Plans (401)(k), etc. >
          • 401(k) Accounts
          • 403(b) Accounts
          • 457(b) Accounts
          • Simplified Employee Pension (SEP)
          • SIMPLE IRA
        • Traditional IRA
        • Roth IRA
        • Government Pensions >
          • Oregon PERS >
            • PERS Tier One
            • PERS Tier Two
            • PERS OPSRP
            • PERS IAP
          • FERS
          • Military Retirement
          • Thrift Savings Plan (TSP)
        • Company Pensions
      • Vehicles and Household Goods
      • HSA, FSA, DCAP
      • Stocks and Stock Options >
        • Brokerage Accounts & Stocks
        • Restricted Stock Units
        • Employee Stock Ownership Plan
        • Employee Stock Purchase Plan
        • Non-Qualified Stock Options
        • Incentive Stock Options
        • Restricted Stock
      • Whole Life Insurance
      • Savings Bonds
      • Annuities
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Qualified Domestic Relations Order (QDRO) 
in Oregon Divorce Mediation:
Mediator Matthew M. House, J.D.

If you are dividing an employment-based retirement account, such as a 401(k), 403(b), or pension, you will need what is called a Qualified Domestic Relations Order (QDRO) after your divorce has become final. A QDRO is a written order for the judge to sign -- the same judge who signed your divorce judgment. After the judge signs the QDRO, you will submit it to the Plan Administrator. The Plan Administrator is the person or department in charge of, among other responsibilities, dividing retirement accounts according to the terms of divorce judgments.

A QDRO is, in essence, a document that confirms that the two of you had been married, are now divorced, and have agreed that some or all of the account of the employee spouse (usually called the "Participant") must be transferred into a separate account for the other spouse (called the "Alternate Payee").

The QDRO itself is not a part of mediation, but Matthew House will use a checklist or template from the Plan Administrator to include all of the required information in the Marital Settlement Agreement. Because the QDRO is created based on the stipulations of the divorce judgment, the same information must be in the MSA.

Frequently, you can prepare the QDRO at no cost by using an online QDRO preparation tool provided by the Plan Administrator. Sometimes, you will need to pay to have it prepared. Online QDRO preparation services usually charge $200 to $400.

A QDRO is not necessary for a traditional IRA or a Roth IRA. Other types of retirement accounts may or may not require a QDRO.
Matthew House is the only metro Portland mediator who has:a law degree and 20 years of experience as a mediator, Parenting Coach, and mentor providing free services to pre-teens, teens, and young adults; seven years as a K-12 educator; training as a Family Law Financial Analyst; and a Notary commission. 
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