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  • Divorce Mediation
    • Components
    • Sessions
    • Fees
    • Teens and Pre-Teens
    • Marital Settlement Agreement (MSA)
    • Supplemental Agreement
    • Post-Mediation
  • Choosing a Mediator
    • Require a Law Degree
    • Require Intensive Finance Training
    • Require Parenting Plan Expertise
    • Look for Free Services for Kids and Teens
    • Look for a Notary Public
    • Avoid "Mediators" With No Law Degree
    • Avoid Collaborative Practice Groups
    • Avoid Flawed Consultation Models
    • Avoid Increased Conflict
    • Avoid Inflexible Scheduling
  • About Matthew
    • Five Professionals in One
    • Ohana Means Family
  • Topics to Mediate
    • Income Analysis
    • Budgets
    • Asset Division >
      • Real Property
      • Bank Accounts
      • Vehicles and Household Goods
      • Retirement Accounts
      • HSA, FSA, DCAP
      • Stocks and Stock Options
      • 529 Plans and College Savings
      • Whole Life Insurance
      • Savings Bonds
      • Annuities
      • Business Ownership
      • Cryptocurrency and Digital Assets
    • Child-Related Decisions >
      • Child Custody
      • Parenting Plan
      • Child Support: Minor Children
      • Child Support: College Students
    • Spousal Support
    • Debt and Credit >
      • Unsecured Debt
      • Secured Debt
      • Tax Debt
      • Bankruptcy
      • Credit During and After Divorce
    • Tax Issues
  • FREE CONSULTATIONS
    • 90-Minute Intro | Free First Hour
    • Free 30-Minute Meet-and-Greet
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Parenting Plans in Beaverton Divorce Mediation


Parenting Plans in an Oregon Divorce: The Short Version


  • Whereas legal custody is decision-making authority -- whether parents jointly make major decisions concerning minor children or whether one parent has the final say -- physical custody refers to how parenting time is shared.
  • "Physical custody" and "parenting time" are synonymous.
  • The parenting time schedule need not be equal, but it may be.
  • Parenting time may be allocated according to whatever schedule the parents agree is in the children's best interests, no matter how the legal custody is awarded.​
  • Every divorce that involves at least one minor child must have a parenting plan.​
  • The parenting plan sets forth a schedule stating when the child(ren) will spend time with each parent, as well as a schedule for holidays, vacations, and special occasions.
  • The parenting plan can -- and usually does -- include other stipulations besides just schedules.

Common Mistakes in Parenting Plans


  • Parenting time schedules should be appropriately specific; if they are too vague, they're difficult to interpret.
  • You should not rely on the county's templates. If you haven't already viewed them, don't. They may give you the impression that your options are limited, which is not true.
  • A parenting plan should include more than just a schedule; it should also have stipulations for co-parenting.
  • A parenting plan will remain in effect until it is modified, but it should have provisions to modify it in the future, knowing that circumstances will change.​

How Matthew can assist you with your Oregon parenting plan


  • Matthew will help you to avoid the mistakes and oversights mentioned above.
  • Also, he will assist you in writing a detailed parenting plan that addresses more than 50 issues that may pertain to your case. Some must be addressed, but others are optional.

Twenty years of experience have provided Matthew with countless helpful strategies that he will share with you to help you and your children to thrive post-divorce.

Next Steps


​Schedule a 90-minute in-person or Zoom introduction (first hour is always FREE)
​or a 30-minute free "meet-and-greet" as soon as you're ready to begin mediation.

90-minute intro | free first hour
free 30-minute meet-and-greet
Matthew House is Oregon's most comprehensive divorce mediator. Please email Matthew to explain your needs and request a consultation..
3800 SW Cedar Hills Blvd., Ste. 271, Beaverton, OR, 97005 | matthewmhousejd@gmail.com | (503) 643-5284
Divorce mediator for Hillsboro, Portland, Beaverton, Lake Oswego, Tigard, Tualatin, Sherwood, Wilsonville, West Linn, Milwaukie, Clackamas