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  • What is Divorce Mediation?
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    • Mediation Sessions
    • Parenting Classes
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    • Supplemental Agreement
    • Oregon Divorce Forms
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      • Avoid Increased Conflict
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    • Budgets
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      • Bank Accounts
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        • Traditional IRA
        • Roth IRA
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        • PERS IAP
        • Military Retirement
        • Thrift Savings Plan (TSP)
        • FERS
        • Company Pensions
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        • Flexible Spending Account (FSA)
        • Dependent Care Assistance Plan (DCAP)
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      • Bankruptcy
      • Credit During and After Divorce
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      • Exemptions and Credits
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      • Whole Life Insurance
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401(k) Accounts in Oregon Divorce Mediation

What to Know About 401(k) Accounts in an Oregon Divorce: The Short Version

A 401(k) is a pre-tax retirement account at a for-profit employer. You may:
  • Transfer a portion of it to the non-employee spouse, tax-free, with a Qualified Domestic Relations Order (QDRO)
  • Offset it with other assets for the non-employee spouse, with the employee spouse keeping the 401(k) account in full
  • Transfer a portion to the non-employee spouse for an immediate cash-out, with taxes but no penalty

There are other options, but they are undesirable for multiple reasons and are not likely to meet your needs as well as one of the above.


How is a 401(k) handled in divorce mediation in Oregon?


All 401(k) accounts in the name of either party must be addressed (or at least acknowledged) in Oregon divorce mediation, even if you do not intend to divide them.

The most common ways that Mediator Matthew House's mediation clients choose to divide handle a 401(k) are, generally in order of the frequency, are:
  • The account owner retains the entire balance, and the other party is compensated with other assets for the marital portion of the account.
  • A portion of the account is transferred to the other party via a Qualified Domestic Relations Order (QDRO).
  • Some or all of the holdings of the account are liquidated (not an ideal approach, but still possible) and the proceeds are divided equally or unequally, depending on the other terms of the Marital Settlement Agreement.
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Discovery: What 401(k) documents do you need for divorce mediation?

  • Your most recent statements
  • The Summary Plan Description (SPD)
  • Model QDRO or QDRO checklist from the Plan Administrator
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How will Mediator Matthew House help you handle your 401(k) in mediation?


​As you consider the above options and any others that you may want to entertain, Matthew will offer feedback such as:
  • The option(s) that can avoid immediate taxation.
  • The option(s) that can avoid a 10% penalty for early withdrawal
  • The proper method of transfer to ensure a tax-deferred transfer
  • The post-divorce documents and/or procedures, if any, for your preferred option
  • Any specific requirements noted based on his review of the Plan rules
  • Features that may be available only to the employee spouse but not the other spouse
  • The option that can be completed in the shortest time, and the timeline for the others
  • Steps to take to preserve broad investment choices for the non-employee's portion of the account, if transferred
  • The option(s) that can produce liquidity, and the associated tax ramifications
  • Helping you determine which types of assets make the most sense for each spouse, considering various factors
  • Valuation issues that may affect one or more of the options
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Next Steps

Please consider scheduling a consultation as soon as you are ready to begin mediation.

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Matthew House is the only metro Portland mediator who has: a law degree and 20 years of experience as a mediator, Parenting Coach, and providing free services to teens; seven years as a K-12 educator; training as a Family Law Financial Analyst; and Notary commission. 
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3800 SW Cedar Hills Blvd., Ste. 271,
Beaverton, Oregon, 97005

Divorce mediator for Hillsboro, Portland, Beaverton, Lake Oswego, Tigard, Tualatin, Sherwood, Wilsonville, West Linn, Milwaukie, Clackamas divorce mediation